I rewatched a talk by Simon Sinek. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
He was talking about how he and his friend just finished a marathon, and at the end of the race, there were free bagels. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Simon said free bagels, and his friend said, the line\u2019s too long. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
He learned that there are people who see the good thing at the end, and there are people who only see the obstacles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Right now, a lot of my time are spent on coaching, writing up content, thinking about what\u2019s valuable to share. I\u2019m also working on developing my skills to be a better coach, and a better speaker. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For those who don\u2019t know, I\u2019m also working full time, a wife, and a mom to a 5 year old. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And I hear this a lot, where do you find the time? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I now create time for all of this, but it wasn\u2019t always like this. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For many years, I \u201cdidn\u2019t have time\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I blamed many things in my life:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Well, if only I don\u2019t have to take care of my son! -Maybe I\u2019m too dumb. All obstacles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Through coaching, I realized 2 things: <\/p>\n\n\n\n 1 I was using these obstacles to define who I am (I can\u2019t because\u2026)<\/strong> I had to learn to see these obstacles as things I have to overcome, instead of things that define me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The epiphany moment was when I heard Teal Swan\u2019s Tutorial of Life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-If only I have more help! (My husband actually takes care of a lot of things)
-If only I don\u2019t have to work full time!
(All the external circumstances)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Maybe I am too lazy.
-Maybe I am not really made for this.
(All the internal chatter)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2 It was really fear that was stopping me from taking actions. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n